This is a very familiar sight of me nowadays
I love this pic. My little monkey girl!!!! haha
You can see where her "hairy-ness" is from.. hehe
First Kiss
Getting ready to go home!
First ride home:
First nap in First Bed:
First Smile:
If there was ever a pic that made me cry.. this would be it. And I don't know why.
Quite the experience! Ran marathons before, but no where close to that kind of intensity of fatigue. 4 straight days without sleep!
Why 4 days? the first night was due to the "show". Also known as "the bloody show". This caught us off guard. Guess we weren't paying attention in class. A little detail that we really should've been looking out for. As we were panicking in the middle of the night.. we decided to just hop over to the hospital for some professional opinion. They laughed at us and sent us home. Second sleepness night was water breaking. Again drove to the hospital... they laughed at us and sent us home. Third sleepness night was the big contractions. At this point, we were afraid to get laughed at... but, we know this is the real deal... so we waited as long as we could. Too bad we couldn't sleep due to the pain. I didn't sleep because I needed to count everything. Fourth sleepness night was the baby. It's up to her to tell us when we could sleep now. (I guess that's for the next 6 months... *sigh*)
5 (seemingly) long hours of "early" labour before the doctor makes the call to go for the Caesarean. After we sign our waiver, it took all of 10 whole minutes to deliver! WHAT?!? Couldn't you have made that decision sooner?!?! Well, the experience, at least for me, could've been a simple blur... if I didn't get a chance to sneak in some photos!! haha Lina's experience WAS a blur... she was so hopped up on goof balls.
I have to say, the entire hospital stay was simply awesome. The staff at our maternity ward are the best. So kind and patient. (one of them, I swear, is a pornstar.. you know the one...the one with the nurse's outfit.) I don't know how they do it. Having to deal with frantic new parents all the time. It's quite stressful for new parents and they sure make it pleasant and provided us security and serenity. BC Women's hospital rocks! Not only that.. MSP rocks... they sent out a nurse to see if mom and baby is ok the next day too! With a bundle of stuff like books and DVDs and library cards. It's like a owners manual for the baby. Wonder if there's a return policy on her? haha.. just kidding. (And of course.... it's ALL FREE! I've said it before and I'll say it again... I love this country's medical plan!!!!!!) (Still hate the parking fees... $50 for 5 days... boo-urns)
Through the entire time, I keep having this feeling that what we're experiencing is unique. No one in the world has ever gone through what we have.. and no one would understand. So many things had to happen right. It was against all odds. Like all the stars in all the universes were aligned just for us. We ... ALONE.. did it. We made a human being. We thought we made a unique miracle. But, we're not unique. Everyone does it all the time... of ALL time. Now, THAT's a miracle.
I was so sure our baby was gonna be a freak of nature.
(yea.. I said it.)
I'm glad she turned out ... OK. Well, I think she looks like Yoda.
Lina said, ".... it's like a real life Tamagotchi!!..."
Lina and I gave her a life, but really, Persephanie gave us a new one.
EDIT: I have a really slow internet (wished our neighbor put his modem closer to our wall)... pics to come later..
awww, now you know the joy...AND PAIN of parenthood. i like the statement that you said she gave you a new life. that's so true. when i became a mom, it's no longer only about me. (yes, i'm a mommy...to my beautiful cats!!! and don't you dare say it's not the same! i might not be EXACTLY the same, but the emotions and love are still there!)
ReplyDeletei like the yawning pic, so cute!
you had a few typos, i can tell you're tired!
uh.. yea.. I wouldn't DARE say they are the same to any "real" mother. Sure, they share a few similar features (like unconditional love..)
ReplyDeleteI have to say.. after this experience. I definitely appreciate what our mom gave up for us. Mother's Day has a whole new perspective for me now. I always knew what it was.. but, now I've SEEN what they do.
I'm updating this blog constantly.. so keep an eye out.